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Season’s Cleanings

When I first moved to Florida from New York City, I really missed the changing of the seasons. The Northeast moves from a burst of fall color to blankets of winter-white snow and drifts of spring daffodils that promise long, lazy days of summer. It took a long time before I realized that the South has four seasons, too, but they present themselves in subtle ways, unfolding slowly.

In Palm Beach, “season” is a word used primarily to refer to a pocket of time (Thanksgiving to Easter) when the population swells and parties, fundraisers, trunk shows and volunteer opportunities are plentiful. If you partake in all “season” has to offer it can be exhaustingly fun and, as with all good things, seems to pass in the blink of an eye.

After years of living here I began to notice there were signs of spring occurring all around me. It usually begins with the first blooming of my jade vine—a rare flowering climber that puts on a stunning display of blue-green blooms that dangle from my pergola as if floating in midair. Its first bloom seems to arrive each year right around the time the social season is winding down. The majestic yellow-flowering tabebuia tree is next to make its presence known, its vibrant, yellow blooms stealing a bit of thunder from the jade vine. It waits to be noticed, relishing in your admiration, and then rains golden petals that blanket the driveway from the front door to the street, as if to say “it’s time for your exit, here’s your golden carpet,” a flower-covered carpet inviting you to walk into summer.

It’s these signs from Mother Nature that remind me to host those last few dinner parties to be sure to see the friends who will disappear from my life until next fall. And, of course, that it’s time to begin spring-cleaning and prepare for my transition to the Hamptons.

There are so many ways to get it all done, and here I share with you eight organizations that motivate me to clean a little deeper and shed a little more.

1. Food

For the past five years, the Palm Beach Daily News has partnered with the Palm Beach Fire-Rescue and the Town of Palm Beach United Way for the annual Empty Your Pantry Food Drive. Known to locals as the Shiny Sheet food drive, it benefits the Feeding South Florida and The Glades Initiative by collecting non-perishable foods from all the snow birds before they fly up north. It’s a great incentive to empty the pantry after that final round of dinner parties.

2. Kitchen appliances and gadgets, dishware and drinkware:

It seems at the end of season I fall out of love with one appliance or another. This year, I broke up with my blender when I discovered the Nutribullet. I also always end up with an odd number of glasses, dishware, and even cutlery. The Church Mouse, a local resale shop benefitting local charities, is my go-to place to drop off these items.

3. Children’s clothing:

Schoola is a wonderful way to clean out your children’s closet while supporting schools in need. It’s easy to sign up and a portion of the sales go to the school of your choice.

4. Adult clothing:

ThredUP is another quick and easy way to clean out your closet. Through this fashion resale site you can take your earnings as a store credit, donate to a cause, or cash out through PayPal. They don’t accept everything, so you can opt to have them donate the items for your or return them to you.

5. Gowns and cocktail dresses:

My hard-to-part-with cocktail dresses and gowns, the ones my daughters are not interested in, find a home in one of the dozens of consignment shops on the island. Consignment shops are Palm Beach’s Starbucks—there’s one on every corner. Some shops specialize in particular designers or styles and by choosing carefully things sell quickly and at good prices.

6. Blankets, towels, and socks:

Blankets get torn, towels fray and socks seem to lose their mates over time. My go-to places for these types of items are the ASPCA and Peggy Adams Animal Rescue League. Oftentimes they’ll have a specific wish list posted on their sites, so you may also find a new home for all those random things you have no use for and are not sure what to do with.

7. Office supplies, crafts, carpets, and more:

Built to divert waste that is destined for landfills by collecting, processing, and distributing it for use in education, art, and recreation programs, Resource Depot is perhaps my favorite way to rid myself of things I no longer need.

8. Electronics:

All the outdated televisions, cell phones, old computers, e-readers, and tablets that fill your drawers and closets can be dropped off at any one of the seven Solid Waste Authority’s Home Chemical and Recycling Centers.

After a good clean out, I’m able to leave Palm Beach feeling a little lighter, with the knowledge that my cast-offs have been able to do some good for the community. 

Apollo’s Nectar

If there’s one thing I love more than a good book it would have to be a good book party! It’s so much fun creating invitations, cocktails and a themed décor to bring a well-told story to life. Many years ago in New York City my friends and I created a book club that met bi-monthly. We took turns hosting and were tasked with finding a restaurant that would best match the theme of the book. Members had to arrive in costume (so much fun!) and come to the table with a question for the group. Many years later I joined a similar book club in Palm Beach, and the parties were hosted at our homes. It was through our mutual passion for books and girls nights out that Daphne Nikolopoulos and I became fast friends.

It was such an honor to host a party in celebration of Daphne (writing as D.J. Niko) and her new book, The Oracle. She is a real girl’s girl, a devoted friend, mother and wife—and I often think she’s part super woman as well. Daphne collaborated with me on both Palm Beach Entertaining and Hamptons Entertaining while serving as editor in chief of Palm Beach Illustrated and acting as editorial director of the Palm Beach Media Group. On the side, she has written three thrillers and a work of historical fiction under her pen name. Did I mention that she wrote her own cookbook as well and still finds time to dress up as Captain Purplebead to read to her children’s first grade class during literacy week? Super woman.

Another interest that binds us is our passion for cooking (yes, she also blogs!). Since I hadn’t read her new book yet, I asked Daphne for a list of ingredients I might want to include in a cocktail and styles of food that would help create a sense of place for our guests as they listened to our talented friend Margaret Luce perform a reading from The Oracle. What came to mind immediately for Daphne was a name for the cocktail, Apollo’s Nectar, followed by musings on thyme and wild flower–scented Greek honey and fresh pomegranate. That’s when the party began to take shape, and here’s how the story unfolded:

Invitation: Using the create your own design feature on Paperless Post and the cover image from Daphne’s book, it was simple to craft an invitation and send it out in an environmentally responsible way via email.

Attire: Cocktail attire, jacket for men, tie optional. Of course, if this were my book club I would have requested ancient Greek–inspired clothing.

Décor surprises: Since this party is all about The Oracle, stacks of books were certainly in order, as were a few strategically placed vases in a variety of shapes, resembling stones one may have found at the Temple of Apollo at Delphi, an archaeological site in Greece where Apollo was said to have slain the dragon that guarded the area.

Flowers: Wild flowers grow throughout the mountains of Delphi and it seemed appropriate to add small bunches to each of the vessels scattered throughout the living room and powder room.

Music: I’m really having fun with Sound Cloud for my parties! It’s so easy to find a playlist and just as simple to create your own. Here’s a little Turkish Lounge Music I played while we mingled. I used an Apollo’s Nectar playlist during the book signing, then segued back to the lounge music mix.

Signature Cocktail: My recipe for Apollo’s Nectar was inspired by one of my favorite Jean-Georges cocktails, and incorporating Daphne’s preferred Greek honey made it fun and easy to come up with a delicious libation to greet my guests.

Hors d’Oeuvres: Some were passed and most were stationary so guests could still enjoy light bites during our reading. There was an assortment of items to choose from and something for every diet: cheese-stuffed dates; spanakopita triangles (a play on the theme and the final book in her trilogy); chopped Greek salad served in double old-fashioned glasses (with and without cheese); pearl couscous with lamb bites; mini falafel in pita with tzatziki sauce on the side; savory, rice-stuffed mini grape leaves; and hummus with pita chips and spiced olives.

Party Favor: Each guest went home with a signed copy of The Oracle, and a week later everyone received a photo from the evening, a note of thanks for celebrating The Oracle with us, and a prophecy, which in ancient Greece was a revelation of events to come, and in Palm Beach is simply an invitation to another gathering.

Yield: Makes 1 cocktail